Privacy
How Relationship OS handles what you share
Your conversation
Your conversation belongs to you
What you write or say is stored privately against your account so the coach can keep learning. It is never automatically shown to a partner, and there is no admin screen for browsing private conversations.
What is stored
Conversation, observations, and a profile you can edit
We store your messages, structured observations drawn from them (facts, emotions, needs, preferences, boundaries, values, behaviours), the resulting profile attributes with a confidence level, and open hypotheses the coach still wants to explore.
Sharing
A partner only sees what you approve
Compatibility requires two independent profiles and consent from both people. Even then, only the profile categories you explicitly approve are used — never your raw conversation.
Research
Research sharing is off unless you turn it on
Sharing your conversation with the product team is a separate, optional consent. It is switched off by default and you can withdraw it.
Therapists
Nothing is ever sent to a therapist automatically
You can produce a therapist-ready summary and choose which sections it contains. You download it and decide who sees it.
Deletion
You can delete everything
From your profile page you can delete your profile, conversations, observations and insights. Deletion is permanent.
Limits
This is not therapy
Relationship OS is a reflective coaching tool. It is not therapy, diagnosis or medical treatment, and the AI can be wrong. If you are in danger, contact local emergency services.